If you were to do a Google search of the word "value", you'll find denotative meanings such as "the regard that something is held to deserve; the importance, worth, or usefulness of something" or "relating to a person's principles or what's important in life". The one that stood out to me the most is "to consider (someone or something) to be important or beneficial, having a high opinion of them". Now, let's examine that last statement for a bit, meditating on the subtext between the lines. Take that last definition of value and apply it on a personal level: do you consider yourself important? beneficial? do you hold a high (but humble) opinion of yourself? If you have answered "No" to any of the questions listed above, allow me to share a message that has been bestowed upon my heart:
Know that you are a diamond in the rough among pebbles in the concrete, constantly facing pressure because you're being called to do more than being sedentary, constantly facing pressure because you are worthy of all the blessings God has in store for you, constantly facing pressure because of the anointing He has placed on your life, and constantly facing pressure because you're being pruned for greatness. So, even if you don't see the value of all that you have done, be assured that the dedication you've put in is priceless. As always, have a wonderful weekend! Many blessings, Black Honeycomb Per: Psalm 139:14- "I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well." Matthew 10:31- "Fear not, therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows." "Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth."- Anonymous
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*Note: This post is not intended to offend nor single out anyone. Before you proceed with reading, I advise you to have an open mind and feel free to share your thoughts. This is a judgement-free zone. There comes a time in life when you have to literally check yourself before you wreck yourself. It could involve cutting back on your long nights out, cutting back on your alcohol intake, or cutting out meaningless flings and hookups. Lately, the latter part of that list is where I'm standing; casual flings aren't doing it for me anymore. Don't get me wrong, casual flings are fun and exciting when you aren't in search of anything too "heavy", but at the end of it all, it's a complete waste of time (at least is for me). I'm aware that in today's culture the social norm appears to be "hooking up" or "Netflix and Chillin'", which is fine for those of you who, once again, aren't in search of anything too constricting. I am also aware that some millennials may feel that monogamous relationships aren't something to experience early on in your 20's, rather having freedom to explore what it is that they like and dislike when it comes to sex. On the other-hand, I am quite frankly tired of it. This may sound weird coming from someone who's only 20-years-old, but let me be transparent with you for a bit. I honestly wish I would have held on to my "piece" for a little while longer. I wish that I would have listened to those little love notes from friends who had already had sex, the "Wait until you're married" or "Wait until you can experience it with someone meaningful" speeches. Perhaps I should have listened to my intuition before it even went down, the little angel on my shoulder whispering, "Be patient. Wait a little while longer". But, there's no sense in regretting the past, especially since there's a beautiful future ahead of me. So, that is why I am deciding to be celibate. I am aiming to wait until I am in a serious relationship that leads to marriage, or better yet, until I'm married. I already know that this decision will be faced with a lot of opposition and temptation, but through prayer and devotionals, I plan to make it through. I also plan on telling the men I meet along this journey what the deal is, and that they are welcomed to stay if they truly understand my choice, as well as being free to go if they don't. As always, have a wonderful rest of the week, and be sure to tune in to my next post! Have a blessed one, Loves! Love, Black Honeycomb "Our willingness to wait reveals the value we place on the object we are waiting for."- Charles Stanley Artist Unknown Well hello there, did you miss me?
So, it's been a little over a month since the last time I have posted anything up here and honestly, I need a spanking for not being on top of my blog game. Life has been pretty crazy, sexy, cool within this month, and I've decided to share what's been going on with me. First things first, my trip to North Carolina & Atlanta! Back in May, I went on a 3-day educational trip to visit some universities (North Carolina A&T, Clark-Atlanta, and Georgia Tech) as well as some attractions within the surrounding areas (International Civil Rights Museum in Greensboro, NC., CNN, Martin Luther King, Jr. National Historic Site, etc). To sum up my overall experience, it was mentally stimulating, aesthetically pleasing, and highly emotional. The emotions ran high when we were walking through the ICRM exhibits, especially the "Cash Crop" exhibit by Stephen Hayes (see images below). If you are interested in checking it out, it will be on display until mid-to-late August. Another highlight from my trip was the CNN Tour, which featured a behind-the-scenes look of the world of broadcast journalism (which is right up my alley). I was like a kid in the candy store: "ooo-ing" and "aww-ing" at every station we stopped at, high off of the thrill of my dreams being displayed before me (see images below). If you happen to be a student, tours are typically $15, so save up for the actual trip to ATL if you can. As for regular-degular-schmegular life, things are going smoothly. Summer courses began on May 23rd, and I'll be busy as a bee up until August 2nd, at least academic wise. As far as my social life, well, that honestly has been put to the backburner. It's crazy when you get that sudden realization that you're working more than you're actually playing, which I've decided to get on top of before I become overwhelmed. I'm looking to balance out these summer classes with summer festivals, concerts, beach days, and MORE traveling, so if you guys have any suggestions of activities going on within the DMV (or out of it), please feel free to let me know. As always, enjoy your weekend! With love, Black Honeycomb PS: The "What's Your Name, What's Your Sign" series is in the works. I am still taking inquiries for people who want to be featured, so hit me up! |
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